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Year one: I sold phone accessories from my room in Surulere. My "office" was a WhatsApp status update and a Jiji listing. Profit: ₦340,000. I reinvested all of it. Year two: I rented a shared space in a tech mall, hired one assistant, moved to Ins...
She is my friend. Has been for twelve years. I love her. But her husband is a man I despised, and watching her marry him felt like watching something happen that I could not stop and should not have had to witness. So I called two days before t...
I ask because I genuinely do not know the answer anymore. We broke up seven months ago. On paper everything is fine — I moved on, I go out, I laugh, I even went on a few dates. But at 2am when everywhere is quiet, I still miss him. Not the relatio...
Let him cheat. Let him flirt. Let him walk away. Let him throw away everything you built together. You cannot compete with a man who already decided you are optional. Stop exhausting yourself trying to prove your worth to someone who calculated ...
Remember! You are not behind. You are not late. And you are definitely not forgotten. Every silent prayer, every tear no one saw, every time you chose to stay strong when it would have been easier to give up, it counts. Growth doesn’t always look...
Not the kind that comes from having everything figured out, but the kind that comes from knowing I am becoming who I’m meant to be. It’s the ability to sleep at night without regret eating at my heart. It’s waking up with purpose instead of pressure....
Me:Trust your journey, love yourself fiercely, and know that what feels like delays are really just lessons in disguise Over to you all
I want to be clear: I still believe. My faith is intact. This is not an anti-church post. But there are specific things that a trained therapist gave me that a decade of prayer and fellowship did not — and I think it's important to say that. Th...
What's that one lesson you learned last year. Don't be ashamed to say it
The split camp: it's equal, we should both pay, gender is irrelevant, financial equality applies here too. The traditional camp: the man asked, the man pays, it's not about oppression it's about the signal he's sending. The pragmatic camp: whoe...
Serious question. Hear me out. The average Nigerian graduate earns ₦80,000–₦150,000/month in a formal job. Rent in Lagos alone can eat 50-70% of that. NEPA, transport, food, data — by the 15th you are calculating. Meanwhile I see people running...
Three months ago I finished a report that took me two weeks. My line manager was on leave. I handed it to a senior colleague to pass along. He presented it as a collaborative effort — "we worked on this together" — in front of the MD. The MD prais...
My mother cried when I ended that engagement. Not because she thought he was a good man — she had always been quiet about him, which was her way of screaming. She cried because she was afraid for me. Thirty-one and unmarried in Nigeria is its own kin...
Early in my career as a therapist, I prided myself on structure. I had my questions ready, my frameworks organized, my session plans clear. I believed progress came from direction — from guiding conversations toward measurable breakthroughs. One a...
Nobody knew because I was still showing up. I was still going to work, still hitting deadlines, still laughing at the right moments. From the outside I was fine — better than fine, actually. People around me said I seemed focused. Inside I was ...
