Dear Nigeria,
Your young people are tired of waiting.
We are tired of being told that our time will come when we have spent years watching opportunities pass us by. We are tired of hearing, βBe patient,β when patience has become the language of...
I am grateful for something that money cannot buy and success cannot replace: a family that genuinely wishes me the best.
Life is not always easy. There are days when I feel tired, confused, or uncertain about the future. There are moments when my...
Dear Nigeria,
Your young people are tired of waiting.
We are tired of being told that our time will come when we have spent years watching opportunities pass us by. We are tired of hearing, βBe patient,β when patience has become the language of...
Morning dear, Iβm a corps member serving in Port-Harcourt, working in one of the big high-rise buildings. Thereβs this find guy who works for another company on the third floor weβve been stealing glasses at each other for weeks one day during lunch ...
Her: please don't stop...I want to please you, I want every bit and every inch of you, I want to feel your warm breath on my skin, I want you to from pleasure
You: Hearing this just makes me want to explore her body in every satisfying way I can im...
You: I keep thinking about something, and I need to tell youβ¦
Her: Tell meβ¦
You: I canβt stop picturing youβlaid out, needy, waiting for me. Your body already warm, skin tingling, heart racing because you know whatβs coming.
I start slow. My...
Itβs my best friendβs birthday, so I get dressed up for his birthday dinner.
I put on my sexiest corset and black seamed stockings, my new 4-inch stiletto heels, and a short skirt that just covers my stocking tops and a see-through blouse to compl...
It all starts with the mind β¦ the mind controls us, what we think, how we thinkβ¦. It is responsible for how we behave. It normally controls our actionsβ¦. Regardless of the subject β¦. It is very powerful and can carry us into other realms, not necessa...
Three months into therapy I had a week so good I thought I was done. Genuinely done. The heavy thing I had been carrying felt lighter. I was sleeping. I was present. I thought: I fixed it.
Two weeks later I fell apart in a supermarket because they...
Scenario: Your partner has been unemployed for eighteen months. Not lazy β actively looking, doing freelance bits, dealing with a market that's genuinely brutal. You have been carrying the bills.
At what point does support become enabling? At what...
We worship the destination and mock the road.
Tell Nigerians you are struggling to build something β they pity you or give unsolicited advice. Tell them you succeeded β they love you, celebrate you, want to be associated with you.
But no one cl...
Not a secret about cheating. I mean other secrets.
Like not telling your partner about an old debt you're managing. Or about a health scare you don't want them to worry about. Or about how you really feel about their family. Or about a mistake you...
I did not choose this. I want to be very clear about that.
It started two years ago. Just an awareness. He said something kind to me during a hard period and something shifted. I tried to unshift it. I cannot.
I have not acted on it. I will not...