Love, friendship, and human connections
His name is David. He is a mechanic in Surulere. He fixes cars all day, comes home smelling like engine oil, and laughs too loudly at his own jokes. My parents took one look at him and delivered their verdict: "That man is beneath you." I have a Ma...
Friendships ending is one of the most confusing grief experiences I know — because unlike romantic relationships, there is rarely a clear moment. No breakup conversation. No defined ending. Just a slow cooling. And then you realise: you have not spo...
The promotion came on a Friday. My team celebrated. My boss shook my hand. I got home at 11pm carrying champagne and found a note on the kitchen table. "I hope the job makes you as happy as you think it will. I deserve someone who actually shows up....
There is a very thin line between patience and settling. Between "loving someone despite their flaws" and "ignoring red flags because leaving feels harder than staying." At what exact moment did it click for you that you were settling? Was it a sing...
