I ask because I genuinely do not know the answer anymore.
We broke up seven months ago. On paper everything is fine — I moved on, I go out, I laugh, I even went on a few dates. But at 2am when everywhere is quiet, I still miss him. Not the relationship. Not the drama. Just him. The specific way he existed.
Is that weakness? Is it just grief doing what grief does? Or does it mean something deeper that I am refusing to look at?
I am not asking whether I should go back. I know I shouldn't. I am asking whether it is possible to love someone fully AND know they are completely wrong for you — at the same time. Without one cancelling the other.
What do you think?
We broke up seven months ago. On paper everything is fine — I moved on, I go out, I laugh, I even went on a few dates. But at 2am when everywhere is quiet, I still miss him. Not the relationship. Not the drama. Just him. The specific way he existed.
Is that weakness? Is it just grief doing what grief does? Or does it mean something deeper that I am refusing to look at?
I am not asking whether I should go back. I know I shouldn't. I am asking whether it is possible to love someone fully AND know they are completely wrong for you — at the same time. Without one cancelling the other.
What do you think?
