Be honest. Remove the romance script.
You have a person who ticks every practical box: financially stable, respectful, stable family, marriage-minded. They will not embarrass you. They will provide. You will be comfortable.
But the spark is not there. You don't think about them when they leave the room. You could take or leave their company.
Would you?
I am not talking about an abusive situation โ I am talking about a perfectly decent human being who just does not move you.
This is one of the oldest human dilemmas. What does your honest 2025 self actually think?
You have a person who ticks every practical box: financially stable, respectful, stable family, marriage-minded. They will not embarrass you. They will provide. You will be comfortable.
But the spark is not there. You don't think about them when they leave the room. You could take or leave their company.
Would you?
I am not talking about an abusive situation โ I am talking about a perfectly decent human being who just does not move you.
This is one of the oldest human dilemmas. What does your honest 2025 self actually think?
