Storys

Nobody knew because I was still showing up. I was still going to work, still hitting deadlines, still laughing at the right moments. From the outside I was fine — better than fine, actually. People around me said I seemed focused. Inside I was ...

There was a season in my life when I was overwhelmed with my own ambitions. I was building, chasing, planning, trying to prove myself. In the middle of all that, a close friend was quietly struggling. They would call sometimes, not to ask for anythin...

In 2021 I had a good job, a small savings, and a very large ego about what I understood about business. A friend pitched me a cold storage distribution play. The numbers looked beautiful on paper. I put in ₦2.3 million. My entire savings plus a lo...

There was a time when I noticed a problem developing — whether in a team project or a personal situation — but I chose to stay quiet to avoid conflict. Eventually, the issue grew bigger and could have been resolved much earlier if I had voiced my tho...

One of my biggest regrets was waiting too long to believe in myself. There were moments in my life when I doubted my abilities and delayed taking opportunities because I felt I wasn’t ready. I allowed fear of failure and overthinking to hold me back....

Omo this one thing broke me like crazy

I was with Kunle for three years. Three years of Sundays at his mother's house, of splitting suya on third mainland bridge, of believing I had found the one. I found out on a Tuesday. His phone buzzed while he was in the shower and I glanced at it...

Fifty books. Philosophy, psychology, memoirs, business, history, fiction. My shelf is full. My highlighter ran out twice. And from all of it — fifty books, roughly eighteen thousand pages — one single idea has changed the way I actually live. It ca...

His name is David. He is a mechanic in Surulere. He fixes cars all day, comes home smelling like engine oil, and laughs too loudly at his own jokes. My parents took one look at him and delivered their verdict: "That man is beneath you." I have a Ma...

I just want to know if couples can stay honest and truthful to each other without any form of pretense Common Causes of Work Stress Excessive workload and tight deadlines Lack of control over work decisions Unclear job expectations Job insecur...

I was at the Third Mainland Bridge at 2am. I will not say why. If you have ever stood somewhere quiet and felt the world would continue without noticing your absence, you may understand. A security guard appeared. He was supposed to tell me to move ...

It was a regular Tuesday morning when I received the call that would change my life forever. I was sitting at my desk, sipping coffee, scrolling through emails, when my phone rang... This is a story about transformation, courage, and finding your tr...

January 1st, I made a promise: write one page every single day for a year. Not publish. Not perform. Just write. The first month was easy. I had backlogs of ideas stored up like clothes in an overfilled wardrobe. Month two: I ran out of the obvious...

Everyone says you do not need to code anymore. Drag-and-drop. No-code tools. AI does the heavy lifting. I decided to test that claim. I had an idea: a simple app that matched Lagos street food vendors with nearby customers in real time. I had 30 day...

Lagos to Kano. Three days. Five buses. One backpack. No plan beyond curiosity. I was running from a breakup and decided the best medicine was movement. I was wrong — you cannot outrun yourself — but the journey gave me something else entirely. Pers...