Storys

Dear Nigeria, Your young people are tired of waiting. We are tired of being told that our time will come when we have spent years watching opportunities pass us by. We are tired of hearing, “Be patient,” when patience has become the language of...

I am grateful for something that money cannot buy and success cannot replace: a family that genuinely wishes me the best. Life is not always easy. There are days when I feel tired, confused, or uncertain about the future. There are moments when my...

Morning dear, I’m a corps member serving in Port-Harcourt, working in one of the big high-rise buildings. There’s this find guy who works for another company on the third floor we’ve been stealing glasses at each other for weeks one day during lunch ...

Her: please don't stop...I want to please you, I want every bit and every inch of you, I want to feel your warm breath on my skin, I want you to from pleasure You: Hearing this just makes me want to explore her body in every satisfying way I can im...

You: I keep thinking about something, and I need to tell you… Her: Tell me… You: I can’t stop picturing you—laid out, needy, waiting for me. Your body already warm, skin tingling, heart racing because you know what’s coming. I start slow. My...

It’s my best friend’s birthday, so I get dressed up for his birthday dinner. I put on my sexiest corset and black seamed stockings, my new 4-inch stiletto heels, and a short skirt that just covers my stocking tops and a see-through blouse to compl...

It all starts with the mind … the mind controls us, what we think, how we think…. It is responsible for how we behave. It normally controls our actions…. Regardless of the subject …. It is very powerful and can carry us into other realms, not necessa...

Three months into therapy I had a week so good I thought I was done. Genuinely done. The heavy thing I had been carrying felt lighter. I was sleeping. I was present. I thought: I fixed it. Two weeks later I fell apart in a supermarket because they...

The month I quit, three people in my family stopped speaking to me. My father called it irresponsibility. My older sister said I was wasting a "good position." A colleague told me I would be back in six months with my tail between my legs. I had b...

At my peak, I was sending ₦150,000 home every month. Rent for my mother. School fees for two younger siblings. Upkeep for a cousin who was "in between jobs" for three years. I was in my late twenties, just promoted, finally earning well. And every...

I was 29 when a therapist asked me: "What do you enjoy? Not what are you good at — what do you enjoy?" I could not answer. I sat there for what felt like a very long time. I could list my achievements. I could list my responsibilities. I could lis...

My first mentor saw something in me I had not seen in myself. He introduced me to people, shared his network freely, and never asked for anything in return except that I work hard and pass it forward someday. My second "mentor" asked for 40% equit...

While growing up, we were told that when you lose a tooth, you should throw it on the roof of the house so that a stronger and better tooth will grow. But thinking about it now… that tradition is funny sha 😂 What about the people whose teeth di...

We are raised to be strong. Not just strong — unbreakable. Carrying everything without complaint is not just culturally expected; it is framed as virtue. The strong woman. The one who manages. The one who does not burden others. So when the anxiet...

I will not pretend it didn't sting. Chisom and I have been friends since JSS2. She was there the night Emeka broke my heart in 2019. She held me while I sobbed in her bathroom. She called him terrible things on my behalf. When she told me they ...